WhateverHappenedYears ago there was an illustration making the rounds that still has a point to make today. A preacher was visiting a new family. In the course of the visit the subject of reading the Bible came up. The mother asked her eight-year old son to go into the living room and bring “the book” they were always reading. The boy returned with the Sears Catalog. We smile at this little illustration but sadly, it contains a major reality relative to the status of Bible reading today.

     In a recent article circulated by Christianity Today (6/5/2015) it was stated that in a United Kingdom survey it was revealed that one in three British children don’t know the Nativity story is part of the Bible. However, 27% think Superman is in the Bible. In this same article it was stated that 88% of American homes have a Bible, many have four Bibles. Less than 40% of Americans read the Bible regularly.

 

Some of us remember these statements:

  1. “The family that prays together stays together.”
  2. “The family is the backbone of the nation.”
  3. “The community is a reflection of the families who live in them.”

When you hear the word FAMILY what comes to mind? Sadly, when some hear family in cause’s painful memories; others are filled with happy memories. From the first family—Adam and Eve—until the most recent family, families have faced challenges. Some families have grown stronger and closer together, while others have deteriorated.

     Whatever happened to family?

     “There is no such thing as society: there are individual men and women, and there are families” (Margaret Thatcher). If society is composed of families, it follows that if there is something wrong with society there must be something wrong with families. What do you think?

     In recent years there has been a proliferation of TV reality shows depicting various constructs of families, from “Housewives” to the Duggars, Duck Dynasty, etc. All of these have had an effect on families. The bubble burst relative to the “perfect family” image of the Duggars when a son committed adultery.

     Whatever happened to family?

     Social science studies, as well as government surveys, and commonsense observations have clearly documented the breakdown of the 21st century family. Houses, instead of being homes, have become no more than motels where mom, dad and all the kids gather in their own mental space to spend time on their social media gadgets. I heard recently that the “Average family” in the USA shares one common meal a month around the dinner table. Houses are now being built without formal dining rooms. The rise of fast food locations is another evidence how families are being fed. Some wives and mothers brag about the fact that they no longer cook at home.

     It is obvious that the once traditional American family has been replaced by what social historians refer to as “the nuclear family.” Marriages once involved couples who grew up in the same community and knew each other; their marriages expressed the same values as the community they grew up in. Today, this is no longer true. Marriages are engaged in by couples who met online, in a bar, on vacation, at work, etc. The issues of ethnicity, culture, values, education, geography, and more have to be negotiated, in most cases with great effort by each partner in the marriage. Perhaps this challenge is one of the reasons the divorce rate is 50 percent in our nation. When the issue of same sex marriage becomes part of the mix, the challenges facing the traditional family and society explode.

     Whatever happened to family?

     The family structure that once was a haven of love, a training center, a safe place, a sanctuary of spiritual practices, and place dedicated to the welfare of each member, is dying a slow death. And in some homes it has died, as each family member is doing his or her own thing. Values that were once taught and practiced in the family and showed up in the work place, school, neighborhood, and in churches, have gone the way of the rotary telephone.

     Families in neighborhoods where they once knew each other and talked over the backyard fence, have been replaced by families locked behind walls with alarms, fences, guard dogs, and garages where cars speed in and out. Many neighborhood have become islands of isolated strangers. Neighbors peep through their windows to spy on their neighbors.

     Whatever happened to family?

     Think about this. The family is where we all start our journey in life. From the training and examples we have been exposed to, we were prepared to go out into the world with a negative or positive attitude. They formed our basic values, beliefs, fears, prejudices, and habits in life. Abraham Lincoln said, “I am what I am because of my mother dear.”

     Whatever happened to family?

10 FACTORS IMPACTING FAMILIES

In my personal opinion, based on research and 50-years of ministry, that there are 10 major factors, with numerous subsets, impacting today’s families:

  1. The changing roles due to economic forces that are requiring both husband and wife to enter the work force; for mothers and wives to compete with their husbands.
  2. The resentment of roles family members are being forced to accept: i.e., everyone having to work, responsibilities, etc. It’s the “It’s not my job” attitude.
  3. A loss of direction because of no clear agreed upon family values, rules, and ethics.
  4. The influence of the media and saturation of modernism.
  5. Deterioration of balanced education programs; ignorance of US Constitution, etc.
  6. Declining influences of churches as many are no more than marketing efforts to be the biggest gathering in a community. The Gospel is not preached.
  7. The worship of sports and other recreation and leisure activities.
  8. Drug and alcohol abuse.
  9. Increase of crime, violence, terrorism, gangs, corruption, etc.
  10. God is left out of plans and decisions.

     Whatever happened to family?

     It’s an irony that many churches that claim they are “a family” are composed of members who aren’t really practicing family in their physical homes. Which comes first? Does a family learn how to be “a family” at home and then take it to the congregation? Or does a family learn how to be a family in a congregational setting and then take it to the home? Which comes first?

     Whatever happened to family?

     Regardless of the answers we give to the question—whatever happened to family?—; there is no doubt there are many, however we always go back to the first family: Adam and Eve. The deterioration of their family unit, which later involved one son killing his brother, started with Eve obeying the voice of Satan, followed by Adam’s disobedience (Read Genesis 1-3). The word SIN, especially in the Greek language, means “To miss the mark, target, etc.” God has a “target” for the family. It is to glorify Him (Ephesians 3:21)

     Whatever happened to family?

     God gave Israel a commandment that required a set of behaviors in the home as well as in daily life. Notice Deuteronomy 6:4-9: “Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one! You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength. And these words which I command you today, shall be in your HEART. You shall TEACH them diligently to your children, and shall TALK of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. You shall BIND them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall WRITE them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.” From these core behaviors all values would emerge in the daily life of an Israelite and his worship of God. This serves as a biblical, positive and workable model for families today.

     Whatever happened to family?

     It is easy to cry wolf and talk about the symptoms of the declining family but the need is to offer some biblical, positive, and workable solutions. Here are a few:

  1. Families need fathers and heads of families to take a stand like Joshua did: “…But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord” (Joshua 24:15). You are not responsible for my family, and I am not responsible for your family. The government and church are not responsible for my family. Fathers take a stand!
  2. Families need mothers who love their husbands and children: “… the older women…admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed” (Titus 2:1-5).
  3. Families need children who will respect and obey their parents: “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. ‘Honor your father and mother,’ which is the first commandment of promise” (Ephesians 5:1-3).
  4. Families need fathers who will train and educate their children: “And you fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4).

     Whatever happened to family?

     How are things with your family? What is your intentional plan to make sure your family is being taught, led, and encouraged to be what God desires?

    

truth mediumWhen I was in the first grade, many, many years ago, I heard a story about our first President, George Washington. The story had a major impact on my life then and since. The story was about George Washington being given a hatchet when he was about six years old, which he took and used it to chop down everything in sight. One morning he even chopped down a cherry tree. When he was caught and confronted by his father, young George hesitated but told his father, “I cannot tell a lie, I chopped down the cherry tree.” Rather than punishing George, his father praised him for tell the truth. Since the first grade unto now, I have believed in the value of telling the truth.

     The world since my first grade days has changed drastically in every field of endeavor; from science to entertainment, from politics and religion. Especially in the area of truth, its usage and value. Sir Winston Churchill hit the nail on the head relative to the power and influence of a lie: “A lie gets halfway around the world before the truth has a chance to get its pants on.”

     A business that has emerged in the past few years, and is especially used during this political seasons, is fact checking. The statements by politician are checked relative to whether they are true or false. The most outrageous lie is given a Pinocchio award. This is a sad commentary on the state of our nation, the media, and the lack of value placed on truth.

     We live in a day when many people have no trouble with accepting a lie, as long as it fosters a cause they believe in. And interviewer on the street was asking questions about, “When is it okay to lie?” The answers were shocking and amazing. Most answers can be summarized by, “It is okay to lie as long as it doesn’t physical hurt anyone and it helps you succeed in life. The consensus was that everybody lies, so it is no big deal.

     Years ago I read a little piece of humor that has stayed with me as a preacher. A preacher and his family were driving home from a morning service, when the soft voice of his son asked from the backseat, “Dad, this morning up in the pulpit where you preaching or were you telling the truth?”

     Truth will always be truth, regardless of lacking understanding, enjoying a wrong, disbelief, or ignorance. Truth, from God’s perspective doesn’t change with the times, passage of new laws, acceptance by popularity, or because it is being championed by the masses. Jesus Christ, the truth incarnate, said, “You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free” (John 8:32).

A lie has never freed anyone. Oh, it may make you feel good, happy and accepted for a while, but sooner or later it will find you out and let you down (cf. Numbers 32:23).

     Speaking of truth, it is a biblical fact that God’s people have always had problems with the truth. Here is an example in the days of Isaiah. “That this is a rebellious people, lying children, children who will not hear the law of the Lord; who said to the seers, ‘Do not see,’ and to the prophets, ‘Do not prophesy to us right things; speak to us smooth things, prophesy deceits’” (Isaiah 30:9, 10). Another classic case is the Jews stoning Stephen while he was preaching the truth (cf. Acts 7:54-60).

     It is easy to be duped by philosophy and traditions. Pilate bought into the popular epistemological quest of his day, promoted by Greek philosophers, when he asked, “What is truth?” (cf. John 18:38). Pilate was, knowingly or unknowingly, championing Marcus Aurelius who had said, “Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth.”

     The major enemy of the truth is Satan. This is obvious when we first meet him in the Garden of Eden, and he offered Eve the possibility of becoming a god herself (cf. Genesis 3:1-8). Jesus affirmed the status of Satan as a liar and cause of others to lie: “You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it” (John 8:44).

     Whatever happened to the truth? From the Garden of Eden until today, Satan has influenced mankind to adjust, reject, and trivialize it. No one nor any discipline, saint or sinner, is exempt from his goal of tampering with the truth and destroying it completely. This is why we need to heed the words of Solomon: “Buy the truth, and do not sell it, also wisdom and instruction and understanding” (Proverbs 23:23).

     What is truth? The clarion voice of Christ answers: “Jesus said unto him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one come to the Father except through Me’” (John 14:6). In chapter one of John’s gospel he declares that Jesus is the incarnate Word, the living truth. Therefore, His words are true, “Sanctify them by Your truth, Your word is truth” (John 17:17). Therefore, “For the law was given through Moses, but grace and truth came through Jesus Christ” (John 1:17).

     To borrow a principle from the apostle Paul, “There are, it may be, so many kinds of voices in the world, and none of them is without significance” (1 Corinthians 14:10). As Christians, truth lovers and seekers, we must be careful as we listen to these voices. Are they speaking the truth? How do we know if they are or are not speaking the truth? Just because it is a spokesperson on a popular media outlet, politician with charisma, charming TV preacher, or a so-called documentary, we must “Buy the truth and sell it not.” We must with an open mind and heart seek to “know the truth.” The word of God, rightly divided, exegeted, and applied is the key to knowing and using the truth.

     Whatever happened to the truth? There are several Scriptural answers: First, Satan steals the word—truth—out of human hearts (Luke 8:12). Second, people fail to take the truth seriously; like King Agrippa (cf. Acts 26:24-32). Third, the study of the truth of God’s word is neglected by both Christians and non-believers (cf. 2 Timothy 2:15). Fourth, there are those who do not love the truth (cf. 2 Thessalonians 2:10). Fifth, there are those, for whatever reasons, who turn the truth into a lie (cf. Romans 1:25). Sixth, there are those who are afraid of making enemies or losing friend if they speak the truth (cf. Galatians 4:16). Seventh, the lust of the flesh and temptation to sin reduces the power of the truth in a person’s life (cf. James 1:11-17).

     Whatever happened to the truth? Regardless of the answers, those of us who love the truth must buy it with commitment, study, sharing it and living it in a lying and sinful world (cf. 1 John 5:19).

Here is a challenge. During the next seven days’ pay careful attention to the news stories you see on TV and hear on the radio. I know it’s hard to stomach. You will hear about every conceivable crime for A to Z: adultery to the zeal of terrorist. Make a note of how many of these behaviors are called sin. Unless you have strayed into a so-called “Christian news” program, I venture to say you will not hear the word sin mentioned; and even the “Christian News” programs will rarely use the word sin. Sin is not a politically correct word.

     Years ago when I was doing graduate working in counseling, based on a biblical perspective, one of the textbooks I was required to read was Dr. Karl Menninger book, “Whatever Became of Sin? This book written in the early ‘70s by a psychiatrist is still relevant today: “Whatever Became of Sin?” In my opinion, is more relevant today than when it was written. Why? Because sin has been relegated to the “no longer relevant trash ben” of modernism.

     Notice the shamelessness of dress, language, behavior, gestures, and more that is paraded across the television screen and local theater screens. We are living in an age when immunity is being developed against any thought or mention of sin. Popular books on the best seller list are immoral, when compared to Gods standards, yet they are consumed by the millions; even by Christians. Children are lured into satanic and cultic books and movies because they are popular and “everybody” is reading and seeing them.

     Some of the most popular televangelist have attracted their mega crowds, both in their assemblies and viewing audiences because they never talk about sin. One popular TV preacher affirmed that the only sin mankind is guilty of is low self-esteem. This has created so-called sermons and teachings, along with books, on self-help being the solution to all our problems. Just “think positively” and realize “you can be anything you desire.” And on yes, God wants you to prosper and be rich. The key being financially supporting the preacher and his ministry.

     Dr. Menninger, who wrote from a non-biblical or theological perspective, is more relevant today than he was when he penned it. Sadly, there are a few media preachers, and congregational preachers, who preach a watered down version of the biblical doctrine of sin. The theology behind the doctrine of sin is weak and permissive. Is there any hope that the church will recover the biblical truth about sin? Is there any hope that this generation of preachers will expose sin for what it is?

     One of the major influences on reducing sin to a tepid existence or a non-existence, is the relabeling of sin. Drunkenness and alcoholism is now a “disease.” Homosexuality is now only a lifestyle choice. Abortion is simply the termination of an undesired pregnancy. Adultery is a mistake based on irresistible circumstances. Marriage to a same-sex partner in only an expression of love. Divorce is acknowledging that differences exist and cannot be resolved. Gambling is an over-extension of a desire to be wealthy and successful. Viewing pornography is nothing more than an appreciation for art and the human anatomy doing what is natural. Doing drugs for a high is a way of reducing stress. Relabeling is a national pastime.

     In the midst of all this relabeling and renaming, we must remember “That a rose by any other name is still a rose.” Changing the name and definition of a sinful behavior doesn’t change the truth—sin is still sin. God has not given His approval for relabeling and renaming sin so that it will eventually be acceptable, forgotten, and cease to exist in human vocabulary and hang-ups.

     I find it amazing but at the same time ironic, that the news media will give prime coverage to signs and advances in cancer research; as well as raise billions of dollars for research and treatment, which I am thankful for, but they will not give a sentence to the most deadly foe of mankind and that is sin. Sin not only has temporal consequences in time but also eternal consequences.

     Isaiah spoke in a clarion voice about the consequence of sin: “Behold, the Lord’s hand is not shortened, that He cannot save; nor His ear heavy that it cannot hear. But your iniquities have separated you from your God; and your sins have hidden His face from you, so that He will not hear” (Isaiah 59:1, 2). Imagine being separated from God forever and ever!

     Jesus sealed the fate of those who did not believe in Him and died in their sins. They could not go to heaven if they died in their sins (cf. John 8:21-30).

     How do we feel when we see or hear someone making light of cancer? How about when we hear negative remarks about cancer? I would be upset and wonder what was wrong with someone who would belittle cancer. Here is how Solomon describes a person who takes sin lightly: “Fools mock at sin, but among the upright there is favor” (Proverbs 14:9). The Hebrew word Solomon used for fool is luts and refers to a mocking or making fun of something or someone; to scorn.

     Whatever happened to sin? Solomon tells us what has happened to sin in the lives of some people: “He who covers his sins will not prosper, but whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy” (Proverbs 28:13). The Hebrew word for cover is kacah and means “to cover, to conceal, to hide”. This is what Achan tried to do when he hide forbidden spoils of war, which caused him to lose his life (cf. Joshua 7:16-26).

     I know a lady who tried to cover up a skin cancer on her face with makeup. It didn’t work. In time it turned into a very deadly form of cancer that finally took her life. Trying to ignore, minimize, deny, belittle, justify, forget and relabel sin will not take it away. If we do not deal honestly and biblically with sin problems they will not go away. They will only fester, and will always come back sooner or later to expose and harm us: “… be sure your sins will find you out” (Numbers 32:23); in the judgment (                   ).

     If we are not honest about the reality of sin in the world, in our lives, and in the church, forgiveness will not occur. A line in a popular hymn asks “What can wash away my sins?” The answer is quickly given “Nothing but the blood of Jesus.” This is why Jesus commanded “that repentance and remission of sins should be preached in His name to all nations, beginning at Jerusalem” (Luke 24:47).

     The apostle John reminds us about the continual challenge of sin in our lives: “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:8, 9). The blood of Christ, not self-help or pop psychology, can take away our sins (cf. Matthew 26:28). Cancer denied will not go away, and neither will relabeled sin.

     Whatever happened to sin? Prayerfully for each Christian and the church “it is not crouching at our door”

    

 

A Bible class teacher asked her second grade class, “How many of you say your prayers every night?” Every student in the class raised their hands except one. The teacher asked the boy who didn’t raise his hand, “Tommy, why don’t you say your prayers every night?” He replied, “Some nights I don’t need anything.”

     My research and personal observation is that Tommy is not alone in his understanding and practice of prayer. Many adults share his attitude. Prayer is an emergency hotline to heaven when a need arises. When researching for my book, Don’t Stop Praying; The Answer Is Coming, I discovered the average congregation prays approximately 15 minutes each week. This included the prayers in the assemblies, Bible classes and other times. This raises the question, whatever happened to prayer?

     As we champion a plea to restore New Testament Christianity, based on the Scriptures, an interesting emphasis is missing. An emphasis that is referred to over 600 times in the Bible—Prayer! Bound to a one-hour block of time on Sunday morning we give preaching and the Lord’s Supper the majority of the hour. Announcements, singing and giving are given the next allotment of the hour with prayer receiving the least amount of time. Why?

     When I was a boy, Wednesday night meetings were designated as mid-week prayer services. Now this practice is only a footnote in church history. I can remember with fondness when I was an undergraduate Bible student during lectureships on world missions and evangelism, assembling for all night prayer services. We prayed for the “Iron Curtain” to fall and for other obstacles to be removed that were hindering the spread of the Gospel. God answered those prayers.

     In light of the fact that we have never had more books written on prayer, lectures, seminars, essays, magazine articles, and sermons on prayer, but, seriously, whatever happened to prayer? One is made to wonder with all these resources and so much teaching in the Bible on prayer, that it would be a MAJOR emphasis in the personal life of every Christian as well as the ministry of the local church. Sadly, all this hasn’t restored the dynamic prayer practices we see in the first century church.

     Some form of prayer, prayed or pray is used approximately 165 time in the English version of the New Testament. Prayer is mentioned 16 times in the Book of Acts. It is mentioned 41 times in the Gospels. The prayer life and teachings of Jesus exemplify the importance He placed on prayer. He taught eight specific lessons on prayer and prayed thirteen specific times. In John 17 we have the record of one of Jesus’ long prayers, 26 verses.

     Relative to the time allocated to prayer in today’s congregations, based on the references to the other practices we allocate time, here is a brief comparison. First, there is no reference to “making announcements.” Singing is mentioned 119 times in enter Bible, singer is mentioned 2 times in the Bible and singers is mentioned 38 times. In the Gospels there are two accounts (Matthew 26:30; Mark 14:26); there is one reference in Acts (Acts 16:25); one reference in Romans (Romans 15:9, two references in 1 Corinthians (1 Corinthians 14:15, 26) ; one reference in Colossians (Colossians 3:16) ; one reference in Ephesians (Ephesians 5:19); one reference in Hebrews (Hebrews 2:12), and three references in Revelation (Revelation 5:9, 14:3, 15:3). The Lord’s Supper is referenced three times in Acts, one of which is questioned (2:46), the other two are clear in Acts 20:7, 11. Preaching in one form or another (i.e. preach, preached) is used approximately 47 times in the New Testament, with 7 being used in the Book of Acts.

     It should be easy to see that if we allocate our distribution of time based on the examples, or lack of examples, and frequencies of references to the practices in an assembly, prayer is lacking an equal share of time. Enough about prayer in the assemblies. Let’s move on to perhaps the most important area where prayer is lacking as a practice.

     Each Christians is given 168 hours each week to manage anyway he or she chooses. If a Christian attends all the assemblies of a congregation where approximately 15-minutes is given each week to prayer, how about the other 167 ¾ hours during the rest of the week? Years ago I came across this wise observation by Andrew A. Bonar: “Oh brother, pray; in spite of Satan, pray; spend hours in prayer; rather neglect friend than not pray; rather fast, and lose breakfast, dinner, tea, and supper and sleep too, than not to pray. And we must not talk about prayer, we must pray in right earnest. The Lord is near” (Not sure of written source).

     Again, whatever happened to prayer? Why do some many Christians neglect, as Paul commanded, to “Pray without ceasing” (1 Thessalonians 5:17)? Why don’t many who are sick “call for the elders to pray” (cf. James 5:13-18), instead of expecting them to show up? Why are meals eaten without prayers of thanksgiving (1 Timothy 4:4)? Why are trips and business ventures pursued without praying for God’s will to be done (James 4:13-17)? Why is when faced trials, setbacks, and with decisions, there aren’t prayers for wisdom (James 1:2-11)? Why in the midst of a missionary shortage, lack of preachers and leaders, don’t we pray about these needs (cf. Matthew 9:37, 38).

     Whatever happened to prayer? I can only speak with authority relative to my own prayer life. I choose not to be accusatory relative to the prayer life of others. I do know however, that it is easy to document the frequency of prayer in a congregation. I also know from the statements and confessions of others, some reasons given for not being a perpetual prayer warrior. Some of these are: 1. I’m just too busy to pray. 2. I have good intentions but forget to pray as often as I should. 3. I’m not sure God hears me or answers my prayers? 4. I don’t know how to properly pray. 5. I’m not sure what to pray about. 6. I had rather ask others to pray for me. 7. I’m afraid of making a mistake. 8. I’m just too lazy; I know it’s wrong. 9. I’m not sure I believe God answers prayer. 10. I only pray when it is absolutely necessary. I don’t want to bug God.

     In Mark 11:15-19, we have the account of Jesus driving out the money changers who were taking advantage of the poor. “Then He taught, saying to them, ‘Is it not written, “My house shall be called a house of prayer for all nations”? But you have made it a den of thieves.’” I know the house of prayer is a reference to the Temple in Jerusalem. Since the church is referred to as house of the living God in 1 Timothy 3:15, we can draw a principle relative to the “called out” (ekklesia--church) people of God composing a “house of prayer.” There are numerous references to the identity of the church in the Bible, but how many times have you heard it referred to as “the house of prayer”? Isn’t it ironic that out of all the things members are involved in during the assemblies, prayer is the most neglected?

     Whatever happened to prayer in your personal life? Whatever happened to prayer in your congregation? How can we restore the church to being a “house of prayer”?

There is a cartoon which pictures two older men leaving a church service. One says to the other, “Things sure have changed in the church.” His friend replied, “What do you mean?” “Well, remember when we used to come to church and bring our Bibles? Now we have to bring our dictionary.”

     In over 50 years of preaching and teaching homiletics and advanced preaching for 35 years, as well as having written several books on preaching, I conclude that today’s preaching has fallen on hard times. Sadly is has changed with the times; not just in the methodology of delivery but in content. Paul’s admonition to the Timothy to “Preach the word! Be ready in season and out of season. Convince, rebuke, exhort, with all longsuffering and teaching” (2 Timothy 4:2), is a neglected admonition in our day.

     In the verse following the admonition to “preach the word”, Paul makes a prediction: “For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they will heap to themselves teachers; and they will turn their ears away from the truth, and be turned aside to fables” (2 Timothy 4:3, 4). Paul’s prediction is still being fulfilled in our day.

     I had an elder called me when I was training preachers. His congregation was looking for a new preacher. I will never forget his remarks. He said, “We are not looking for a Bible thumper but someone who can entertain and make the message relevant so people will listen.” I tried to encourage him to change his mind and seek a preacher who loved the church and preached the word in love. He wasn’t interested. I was thankful I didn’t have a preacher I could recommend who met his qualifications.

     In Paul’s day preaching was viewed as foolishness: “For since, in the wisdom of God, the world through wisdom did not know God, it pleased God through the foolishness of the message preached to save those who believe. For the Jews request a sign, and Greeks seek after wisdom; but we preach Christ crucified, to the Jews a stumbling block and to the Greek’s foolishness” (1 Corinthians 1:21-23). If preaching is foolishness, then those of us who preach are “fools” or foolish.

     There is a fictional story about a visitor coming from Mars to attend and evaluate his experience in a Sunday morning church service. The visitor concluded that the one hour service was dominated by the sermon—30 minutes. The Lord’s Supper—15 minutes. The singing and praying—7 to 10 minutes. The rest of the hour was given to announcements and remarks at the conclusion of the assembly. He also observed that since the preaching was the dominate use of time, why was it done so poorly.

   The level of preaching in a congregation is where it is because of the preacher. It will never rise any higher until the preacher raises it. He is responsible for the content, clarity, enthusiasm, timing, and suggestions for application. The pew reflects the man in the pulpit. I once heard, “There are cold members in the pew because there is an ice cube in the pulpit”.

     Whatever happened to biblical preaching? The decline and devaluation of preaching has been around since the early preachers, such as Noah, were ignored and rejected. In more modern times, back in 1970 when I taught my first undergraduate course in Homiletics, one of the text books I used contained these six charges against preaching:

     “Charge # 1—Preachers tend to use complex, archaic language which the average person does not understand.

     “Charge # 2—Most sermons today are boring, dull, and uninteresting.

     “Charge # 3—Most preaching today is irrelevant.

     “Charge # 4—Preaching today is not courageous preaching.

     “Charge # 5—Preaching does not communicate.

     “Charge # 6—Preaching doesn’t lead to change in persons” (The Empty Pulpit, Clyde Reid, pp.25-31, 1968, Harper & Row, Publishers, N.Y.).

     If these six charges by Reid were true back in the late 1960s, how much more are they true today as the media, modernism and liberal influences have changed the direction of the Sunday morning sermon, as well as others?

     Moving to the 1980s, Michael Green wrote this in the Editor’s Preface of John Stott’s book, Between Two Worlds: The Art of Preaching in the Twentieth Century: “The standard of preaching in the modern world is deplorable. There are few great preachers. Many clergy do not seem to believe in it any more as a powerful way in which to proclaim the gospel and change the life. This is the age of the sermonette: and sermonettes make Christianettes” (p. 7, 1982, William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company, Grand Rapids, Mich.).

     More recently in January 31, 2013, writing in The Aquila Report, Marty Schoenleber, Jr., addressed our subject in an interesting article titled, “21st Century Preaching: Cowards Need Not Apply: “I have met too many of what I call ‘survivors’—pastors who survive in small and large places by only telling pleasantries, jokes, and sentimental soppy stories (the preaching equivalent of kitty cat pictures and movie shorts on wimp.com). These men seem to have read or imbibed from the culture around the philosophy of dale Carnegie and his “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” They have reduced the whole of their job to trying to “Dale Carnegie the ministry.” They keep their mouths shut about the controversies around them; they never speak or preach about the difficult things in culture; they have made being pleasant and “harmless” at art form. They are coward.” (http://theaquilareport.com/ 21st-century-preaching-cowards-need-not-apply/).

     Yes, there are preachers today who still preach the word and have fire in their bones like Jeremiah (cf. Jeremiah 20:8). Sadly, their numbers are shrinking. We need a return to the Pentecost model of preaching in the Book of Acts, chapter two. We note several things relative to Peter’s sermon. First, he had spent three-plus years training for this sermon. Second, he recognized the approval and need of the Holy Spirit. Third, he had a curious and ready audience. They were curious about the behavior of the 120, etc. Fourth, then Peter stood up so the hearers could see him. Fifth, he was supported by the eleven; it was a team effort. Sixth, he raised his voice to be heard by the crowd. Seventh, he specifically addressed the crowd: the Jews. Eight, he preached Christ as the fulfillment of prophecy. Ninth, he convicted the audience of sin. Tenth, his sermon pricked their hearts, causing some to ask the question, “Men and brethren what shall we do?” (Acts 2:37). Eleventh, Peter gave them the gospel answer (Acts 2:38). Twelfth, as a results of Peter’s sermon three-thousand were baptized (Acts 2:39-47).

     Each one of these 12 points need to be develop as we plea for a return to biblical preaching. This quest should be on the top of every preacher’s list and on the list of every congregational leader. The world needs to see Jesus lifted up (cf. John 12:32) in biblical preaching done by preachers who have “fire in their bones.” The church needs to see preachers who will choose the lion’s den or jail cell rather than compromise their commission as “fools for God.” Take the clock off the wall and replace it with a banner reminding the preacher about his mission: PREACH THE WORD.

Leadership, like most subjects, has gone through a lot scrutiny, study, adjustment and change in the last three decades. These studies have included the traits, styles, character, integrity and theories of leadership. Models of both effective and negative leadership have been featured in articles, books, and seminars. Most local congregations have also, at one time or another, during recent years given attention to leadership.

     Over the past 30 years several new leadership models have been presented in the business sector of America. Some have found acceptance and application in congregations. These include transformational, transactional, charismatic, situational, managerial, and servant leadership. Examples from Hitler to Churchill have been used as models of leadership. Even the leadership traits of Jesus, Moses, Paul, and Nehemiah have been presented as models.

     Back in 2007, Lee Iacocca asked in the title of his bestselling book, “Where Have All The Leaders Gone?” (Simon & Shuster, N.Y., N.Y.). On page five he asked: “Where are the voices of leaders who can inspire us to action and make us stand taller? What happened to the strong and resolute party of Lincoln? What happened to the courageous, populist party of FDR and Truman? There was a time in this country when the voices of great leaders lifted us up and made us want to do better. Where have all these leaders gone?” While the author is referencing his remarks to business and political leaders, there is a principle application for church leaders.

     Whatever happened to leadership in the church? Yes, I know we have restored the titles of elder, deacon, preacher, teacher, and minister. But have we restored the leadership practices we observe in first century church leaders? After writing 20 books, numerous articles and teaching leadership on the undergraduate and graduate levels, I know I have now taken a step onto sensitive, controversial, and avoidable ground. Speaking for myself, most of us who lead in the church don’t want the spotlight directed on us and our performance. Why? Two reasons. We know we aren’t perfect but keep our hands to the plough anyway. Second, so many requirements and expectations based on business and sports models have been added to the servant model God requires. We have created a model for failure, discord, and abuse of the biblical model of being a servant leader.

     I know that leadership in congregations’ today face cultural, economic, moral, educational, media, and spiritual challenges no other generation of leaders has faced. There is the necessity for using commonsense, expediencies, and allowing changes in traditions in order for the Body of Christ to carry out her mission in the world. However, all processes addressing these challenges must be based on the solid leadership principles in God’s word.

     In order to restore biblical leadership we must begin with the realization that all leadership begins with self-leadership. It is in leading self that we learn what leadership is and how it works. If I can’t lead myself how can I lead others? Whether as an elder, deacon, preacher, teacher, or minister, your work is based on your ability to lead yourself. The apostle Paul addressed this principle in his Romans letter: “You, therefore, who teach another, do you not teach yourself? You who preach that a man should not steal, do you steal? You who say, ‘Do not commit adultery,’ do you commit adultery? You who abhor idols, do you rob temples?” (Romans 2:21, 22).

     In order to restore biblical leadership we must understand and practice servant leadership. This is in contrast to the dictator, boss, or owner mentality of leadership. Jesus set the example (cf. Mark 10:45; Philippines 2:4-9). When the disciples of Christ were seeking prominent positions of leadership, Jesus rebuked them and gave them this reminder: “… You know that those who are considered rulers over the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones exercise authority over them. Yet it shall not be so among you; but whoever desires to become great among you shall be your servant. And whoever of you desires to be first shall be slave of all” (Mark 10:35-45).

     In order to restore biblical leadership we must remember that a leader’s influence is the major catalysis for effectively leading followers. It’s the old adage “What you are speaks so loudly I can’t hear what you are saying.” In giving the Philippian brethren a thinking agenda, Paul reminded them it wasn’t just words but it was his example: “The things which you have learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do and the God of peace will be with you” (Philippians 4:9). Every Christian is influencing someone else; this is especially true of leaders.

     In order to restore biblical leadership it is essential that leaders be bold, not cowards. Boldness was one of the obvious traits others saw in the early church leaders. “Now when they saw the boldness of Peter and John, and perceived that they were uneducated and untrained men, they marveled. And they realized that they had been with Jesus” (Acts 4:13). Boldness is not rudeness, pushiness, or aggressiveness. It is having the faith and convictions to do the right things regardless of the opposition. It is saying “we ought to obey God rather than men” (Acts 5:29). It is knowing that fearfulness is not from God (cf. 2 Timothy 1:7).

     In order to restore biblical leadership it requires knowing and practicing every attitude and action with a view of glorifying God, not self or anything or anyone else. “[T]o Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen” (Ephesians 3:21). “For to Him and through Him and to Him are all things, to whom be glory forever. Amen” (Romans 11:36).

     In the world of what we call executive leadership there is a continual quest trying to find a test or evaluation that will quickly identify and determine an executive’s leadership ability. This quest has produced a plethora of diagnostic profiles, tests, forms, assessments, and evaluations that offer insight into leadership ability, or a lack thereof. In some congregations these diagnostic tools are being used with Bible passages tacked on. This may help us answer the question: Whatever happened to leadership? Biblical leadership has been absorbed, diluted, and replaced by a worldly approach. We must prayerfully and biblically ask and answer, What is the biblical test for real leadership that glorifies God?

     This brief article has been written with the intention and need to draw our attention to the question, Whatever happened to leadership? How visible and successful is it in our congregations? Every institution from the home to the White House; from the local church to a military unit, is where it is because of leadership yesterday and tomorrow will be where leadership is today. We close with these clarion words by Jesus relative to following the leaders in His day: “Let them alone. They are leaders of the blind. And if the blind leads the blind, both will fall into a ditch” (Matthew 15:14). Remember the leadership approved by Jesus involves serving, caring, sharing, loving, selflessness, and courage, all based on the word of God. All Christian leadership has a spiritual dimension, which affirms that every kind of church leadership centers in the spiritual.

     Whatever happened to leadership?

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J.J. Turner presently serves as an elder and preacher for the Lord’s church in McDonough, GA.

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